Answering Customers’ Questions: Healing Anxiety

This week, a customer asked me what could they do to heal the anxiety they felt about a situation in their life, so as not to project negative energy over the outcome of a spell that was going to be performed for them.


I thought that many other customers could be sharing this concern, so here is a post with a slightly extended version of my reply:


Healing the anxiety of projecting negativity over our own lives is a complex matter, because it deals with the idea of what we truly deserve, and that idea can be programmed very negatively into our minds as children, and takes time and awareness to fix it. We cannot undo in one day, or in one magical work, what took years to be made.


I would definitely recommend working on all fronts at the same time: doing any kind of healing work in your spiritual path, from the more magical (as in candles, amulets, or spiritual baths), to the psychological (like mindfulness practises, subliminals, or listening to audiobooks/lectures on self-love).


Be patient with yourself, very patient, and very loving – that is the first thing you must learn to deserve, your own kindness! You are not bringing misfortune on you by feeling anxiety, you are merely reflecting what you were taught to reflect.


So, if you feel you need to teach yourself a different lesson, it cannot be done by judging or criticizing yourself harshly. Learning how to unlearn the programming you may have received, and re-learn a new way of treating yourself is the most important step of all.


The key to all healing is to love ourselves better, more powerfully, more consciously – and that begins by not holding your trauma against yourself. Open yourself to Divine Love, and see yourself through the eyes of Divine Love.

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Ten things I Have Learnt After Working With Spirits For Over Thirty Years


1. Spirits want you to be strong, free, living, enjoying, receiving, creating, ecstatic, divine like them, becoming one of them. That may require hard lessons, many tears, and lots of frustration, but they DO know what they are doing.


2. Because of this, the quicker you learn, the better for you. Following their guidance is not an act of obedience, it’s simply an act of intelligence. You are not their servant, but their protégé, their trainee, their beloved, their child.


3. Everything that exists, seen or unseen, tangible or not, can and will be used by the Spirits to communicate with you, and to teach you. Open your eyes, your ears, and your mind to them.


4. If you need it, ask for advice to those who have been chosen by the Spirits to spread their message. They were chosen for a reason. Be respectful and loving to them, because they are living talismans.


5. No matter how many times you stray away from the path, the Spirits will always be there, will always forgive, and will always accept you. Our shortcomings mean absolutely nothing to them.


6. Protecting your connection with them, and keeping your vibration empowered and free, should be your main goals in life, because they are the only things you will take into the next step(s) of incarnation.


7. The previous two points do not mean that you have to be a hermit, or live a life of restriction. It’s perfectly fine to want things for yourself, to improve and empower yourself. Getting that makes the whole world better, and it’s absolutely possible to do it without a single drop of violence.


8. Destructive, parasitic, harmful entities do exist, just as much as harmful people. Protect yourself from both, stay away from both, and don’t play with fire. Overestimating your own power is a big mistake.


9. Trusting your own voice, your intuition, and your feelings is one of the most important tools you will ever have, because the Spirits will constantly use them to help you navigate life.


10. Love and openness are the most important spiritual keys you will ever have. Where you put love, the Spirits will be. When you are open, you are fully conscious and connected. When both happen, you ARE Spirit.


*** Final Note: if any of this, or all of it, does not apply to your experience, FINE. Spirits show themselves in many ways, teach many lessons, and act in different ways with different people. When it comes to them, nothing applies to everyone.

And remember, there is only ONE day, and only a few slots left, to get your participation for the Success 2022 Ritual, happening on Friday 17:

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2021 Recap,The Best Posts: 5 – Experience

To celebrate the end of the year, and the beginning of a new one, I am going to be resharing my favourite posts from the past twelve months! Today, a post about false moral dichotomies, and on how an Espiritista should value experience.

As I see it, there is no such thing as failure in life, only experience. We do not need that kind of dualistic failure/success thinking. We need to think, and live, in much wider terms, in terms that see through all those fake dichotomies, and perceive the endless facets that each experience has, so we can learn the most from life.

Because that is all we should be pursuing, to elevate ourselves through learning – as an Espiritista, I am not interested in judging if I am a failure of a success: I am only concerned with how much learning I accumulate in this incarnation, and how farther in my elevation that can take me. Because the farther I get in this life, and the farther I help others get, the closer to the Spirits I will be in the next step of my evolution, after this life is over.

People think that being guided by the Spirits is being told what to think or what to do, being taken by the hand like a child. They could not be more wrong. The Spirits will make us face the wildest challenges, and look for the answer to the most complex questions, so we can grow – and one day, so we may join them in their plane of light.

And to live that way, fearless because we know of their love and support, because we know that they are putting things before us so we become more like them, trusting them with our very existence, is the heart of being a spiritual worker.

As always, feel free to share – and remember, there are only three days left to get your participation for the Success 2022 Ritual, happening on Friday 17:

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2021 Recap,The Best Posts: 4 – Hope

To celebrate the end of the year, and the beginning of a new one, I am going to be resharing my favourite posts from the past twelve months! Today, one of the messages I have channeled from the Spirits this year, which I think is perfect for the season; a message about the power of hope.

Hope is a matter of courage – because it takes a lot of courage to be hopeful in the face of loss, in the face of desolation, in the face of violence. And right now, the world needs your courage more than ever.Remember, the basis of all courage is Love. Pure, selfless, miraculous Love, from the Divine Source and right into your heart. And that source never dries, and that connection never dies, and there is always more, and more, and more.

So, when you feel empty and exhausted, stop for a moment, stop listening to all the things that are asking for your attention, and focus on reopening yourself to the Source, so you can be filled again with Love. Inside you, that Love will make you as strong as you need to be to overcome any tests.

We, the Spirits, are here to guide you and support you, to empower that Love connection, to strengthen it and help you manifest what you dream of. Work with us, trust our guidance, and listen to our advice – together, we are invincible.

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2021 Recap,The Best Posts: 3 – Your Faith’s True Power

To celebrate the end of the year, and the beginning of a new one, I am going to be resharing my favourite posts from the past twelve months! Today, a very special post about why holding on to your faith is so important. Definitely powerful advice at this time of the year, when we are facing so many different challenges at the same time.


This world is full of cynical people that will want you to lose your faith, think that nobody is listening, and slowly disconnect yourself from your spirituality.


Why? Because without your faith and connection, you are so much vulnerable, easy to manipulate, and lose all your strength. Without your faith and connection, you can be used, abused, controlled, and robbed of anything you have.


And you know what? Among those, there are also spirits. What some religions call demons, parasites, and even curses, can influence you against happiness just the same, and take you away from what makes you strong and free.


Just like bad company, they will keep you thinking you cannot change, while they feed on your energy, and keep you away from anyone and anything that could help you. And yes, both the human and the spirit abusers can drive their victim over the edge, until the very end, or take from them until there is nothing left but the shell of what once was a human.


That is why it is so important to have a honest and powerful spiritual worker taking care of you. To call this an investment would be an understatement; the more protected and cared for you are, the safer you will be from this type of entity, human or spirit.


Your are absolutely invaluable to this universe, and worth every effort. Never forget that.

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2021 Recap,The Best Posts: 2 – Healthy Boundaries

To celebrate the end of the year, and the beginning of a new one, I am going to be resharing my favourite posts from the past twelve months! Also from December 2020, and written after a very moving email conversation with a customer, here’s a post about healthy boundaries, personal growth, and generational trauma:


One of the subjects that I deal with again and again with customers, especially my generation and older, is the difference between being selfish and doing what is better for yourself.


We come from great generational trauma, and we were taught by traumatized people. They taught that putting yourself in the position of a martyr, and not having any sort of healthy boundaries, was THE way to be a decent human being.


Just so, anything that meant keeping boundaries with toxic people and relationships, and doing only what is convenient for your growth and happiness, was to be seen as selfishness, vanity, and separation from the family/society/environment.


And while more often than not there was no ill will in that teaching, just the result of what those people had learnt themselves, we must work very hard to break that chain, for ourselves, and for all future generations. We just cannot carry this anymore, and we cannot burden our children with this trauma anymore.


And yes, we will feel selfish while doing it, because we are going to be breaking great taboos that are completely ingrained in our behaviour; and yes, we will have to carry guilt, and doubt, and pain; but the gift we will be making to the next generations is simply invaluable.


When we teach a new generation to live without guilt of empowering themselves, we cannot even imagine the rewards it will bring to them. Think for a moment where would you be if that had not been taught to you – can you imagine what kind of things you would have achieved, and even more important, what kind of relationships and conflicts would have NOT happened?


I have no doubt that, when I face these issues with my customers, whether if it’s through readings or through spellwork, both their Ancestors and my Ancestors are behind it, rooting for their happiness and success. They have been behind the design of every single group ritual I’ve made this year, and they have brought me back the most joyful moments of the year, as customers share with me their success stories. In such a troubling year as this one, it has truly kept me going.

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2021 Recap,The Best Posts: 1 – Money Magic Tips

To celebrate the end of the year, and the beginning of a new one, I am going to be resharing my favourite posts from the past twelve months. Starting with December 2020, and almost an exact year to the date, here is a powerful tip on Money Magic – something that we can all use this month!

One of my favourite sayings in Spanish is “A Dios rogando, y con el mazo dando”, which can be translated as “Praying to God, and pounding the hammer”, and means that for every prayer that you send up to the Spirits, you must make an equivalent effort on this plane.

When you pray without working, expecting the Spirits to work for you, you are being materialistic and selfish in your relationship with them; that will sour your relationship very quickly, and you will end up alone and disappointed. When you work without praying, you disconnect yourself from alignment, ignoring the fabulous rewards that working with the Spirits can bring you. You are missing the potential for miracles, the Misterio.

This certainly can be applied to every area of our lives, but when it comes to Money Magic, it is truer than ever. Every time that you mirror your magical efforts with your mundane efforts, you are aligning with your true success, and stepping up as a person – and the more you step up, the more blessings you are allowing yourself to receive.

And this, my dear readers, is THE law of manifestation that you should be paying attention to: that financial abundance can only manifest into your life once you have created the environment in which it can exist FIRST. Success will not fall into your lap – it is merely a consequence of understanding how to live abundantly.

And, since we are talking about powerful manifestation, let me remind you to get your participation for the Sucess 2022 Ritual, happening on December 17:

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Spirit Message: The Real You

A new Spirit message, received today while meditating. Since I do not know who needs to hear this today, I would be very grateful for any shares. These come directly from entities of High Light, so the more people they reach, the better. Thank you ❤!


There is nothing more important for the manifestation of your true desires, than to know yourself, and be yourself. That may seem easy or simple, but believe me, it’s not. Actually, it is the most complicated homework assigned to you in this incarnation.


This is the true secret of the term “alignment” – to align with your true desires, you have to know who you really are, and what you really want from life.


You are not what you think of yourself, because you don’t see yourself at your most beautiful, at your kindest moment, when you are radiating joy, when you are truly in love.


But IT IS at those moments when you have truly been showing your divine origin, and truly manifesting your holy power. In your joy, lie the keys you need to unlock these new levels of manifestation.


But, there is so much to remove so the real you can appear, and start making the changes needed – other people’s opinions, rejection, shame, the protections we placed there so survival was possible.


Not easy work, at all, but SO worth the effort. You are worth every single thing you can do to get there – to the vulnerable, open, fully sentient, unafraid, invincible piece of divinity that you are.

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Reaching The End Of The (Magical) Year, Part 2: Cleansing And Recharging Your Talismans

Something that would be an excellent idea before the year ends is to clean and recharge your talismans – gemstones, jewelry, sigils, etc. The method and depth of this process depends mostly on your level of skill and personal path, but for those of you who needs a little help, here are some tips:

A lot of gemstones dissolve in water, and metals can rust, so smoke is the safest choice when it comes to cleansing them. Herbs like Rosemary, Juniper, Sage, and Cedar are excellent choices, as well as resins like Storax and Copal.

Pass them over the smoke several times, on all sides, and just visualize the smoke removing all stagnant energy. If visualizing is not your strong point, just talk to them – if done sincerely, it works. Tell them to release all the negativity they have protected you from, and thank them for their work.

To recharge them, I use a combination of sunlight (it doesn’t matter if it’s cloudy), moonlight (in any phase, you choose), and energy manipulation through laying on of hands. Visualize powerful protective energy gathering from any points in the Universe, and flowing through your hands towards the talismans. Just as before, if visualizing is not for you, try verbalizing it.

An extra tip – the charging part can be done in several consecutive days; this is particularly recommended for those of you who are chronically ill, depressed, or are just inexperienced in this practises.

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Reaching The End Of The (Magical) Year

As the end of the year arrives, we enter one of the busiest times of our entire magical calendar; end of the year cleanses, offerings, and preparations take most of our time. This follows a very simple principle that both my Padrino and Madrina taught: that the more diligent you are this month, the more you will reap during the whole next year.

December sets the foundation of energy on which you will stand for the next eleven months, so the cleansing of energy at your home, your body, and your temple is the first task, and in my opinion, the most important.

Energetic debris, and above all, parasitic entities, can hold great power over our decisions, our mood, and our relationships; they make us make the wrong choices, want the wrong things, and say the wrong words to each other.

They grow into separation, self-destruction, and dead-end streets in our life – there is nothing a parasitic entity will enjoy more than a lonely, self-destructive, stuck victim that has no help coming from any side, so they can prey and feast on their energy until nothing is left.

Just so, the weight of other people’s jealousy and negativity can be very heavy, especially for those of us who have public lives – I always see this as a coat of tar around the person’s aura, trapping them and blinding them; it is a very bitter truth, but few people are truly happy for you, and few people want you to succeed.

Whatever you do to keep this away – ritual cleansings, spiritual baths, smoke fumigations, burning incense, spraying or washing your home – is worth the effort. And don’t forget that all this has a limit; many times, you will need to contact a spiritual worker and just have exorcism/cleansing/hex-breaking done to make sure you are truly free from negativity.

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